Hai korangg .

hai . ni saje la kan nak kongsi cerita . nak tahu duk dendiam baca . taknak sudah berambus . hahaha .

ni saje je la kan nak cerita pasal sorang minah ni , asal minah ni dia dari felda . tapi acah macam bagus .

cerita bermula macam ni , dia ni i taktahu la ape masalah dia kan , and i taktahu ape i dah buat dgn life dia kan , macam tak senang tau tgk life i . but dia kata i yang tak puas hati dgn life dia . hahah funny isn it ?

dia tweet macam macam lah kutuk i bagai bagai , but i still senyap lagi , yela budak baru nak up mmg mcmtu . so  i diam je lah. 

 dia kutuk i ni hitam lah bagai . like takyah la main muka , but i takkisah sgt sbb i admit la i ni bukannya berkulit cerah .

so this one day when i posted at my twitter yang i going out to sunway pyramid , and know what suddenly i terserempak with this girl like what on earth . HAHAHAHAHH

and know what this girl what judging me on twitter malam tu .

dia judge somthing like this 'gaya tudung pun tiru orang ' 'ee kalau aku aku malu' and nak tahu yang lagi funny?? dia ckp sunway pyramid satu tempat yang bosan and tiadaaa hala tuju pun kalau pegi sunway pramid . hahaha sumpah funny . rasanya tempat yng dia rasa tak bosan dekat zoo kot . like please la , why u want to hate sunway pyramid just bcs im hanging out there . like cmon lah. hahahhaha

and nak tahu lagi satu benda tak ,

ade this one day i posted at my twitter also about im going travel to Bali with my boyfie and some close friends. and suddenly dia post on twitter also about going travel either bali or jogya. hahhahhaahha

nampak nau taknak kalah .

and what i rt about bali or travel thing  , she also rt the same stuff. 

 and day by day pass by . and im so excited about bali ,

so i posted on twitter that i cant wait for going tu kta beach , jimbaran , tanah lot and so on. 

and suddenly this girl comment to me asking for how much budget ive prepared  to go there. 

and i just being nice la kan , i replied her said that i dont know the budget bcs everything my bf prepared for me , i said my bf pay for everything . and then she replied me said like this . 'aww so sweet .huhu' 

 want to know the funny things. this even funnier . she tweeted something like this 'sian awak ,saya tahu bf awak tak sweet tapi terpaksa acah bf awak sweet. kesian nya awak.'  like how can she even tweeted this kind of words on the same time she comment my post . hahhaha

im not stalking her , but her tweet appeared on my timeline lik eseriously terkejut i baca . sampai macamni sekali minah ni tak suka aku . 

the she tweet again .this time about her boyfriend 'so lucky to have u . tak payah nak berlakon to show awak sweet.' like hellloooooo girl . kau nak kata aku berlakon la . hahhaha

im going to bali mmg 100% my bf prepared everything . i renew pasport pun my bf bayar kan . flight ticket also my bf punya duit . all the packej my bf support . i just bring my money kalau ade nak beli ole2 untuk family or friends. 

KAU KATA AKU BERLAKON ??? 

HAHHAHAH FUNNY GILA .

about she judging boyfren i ni kan , actually mmg i tempered la kan . panas hati la . kalau dia tak puas hati dgn i , just i jela , tak perlu nak kutuk bf org . 

bcs she dont even know how my bf struggled just to see me happy .

and i dah tak boleh sabar , i terus tweet lah kan , balas balik tweet by unmention her . tapi still berkias lah . 

bcs bagi i attitude tu penting .

so then this girl terasa gila. biasa lah siapa makan cili dia rasa pedas.

the she  tweeted many more stuff said something not nice to see/read la kan . kata piggy lah , kata i gelabah la ,  baru cuit sikit dah terasa and whatsoever. 

i dont even mind at all .

well haters gonna hate right .

then dia tweet lagii something yang sangat menyakitkan hati i .

dia kutuk bf i bapak orang . mmg la dia takde tuju pada sesiap and i terasa lebih bcs lately tu i ade post photos of me and my bf , and ade one of my bf's friend comment 'dah macam bapak orang dah '

bcs my boyfriend muka serious matured gila . tak padan dgn umur dia . but i dont mind if muka dia macam atok org sekali pun .tapi kenapa that girl post something so harsh .??

i takpernah kutuk bf dia tauu . 

then i post balik saying someting about kaki ranting kayu . and guest what dia terasa gila gila lah . sbb bf dia kaki keding mcm ranting kayu rupanya . hahahahahahah

the she straight dm me . bash me and evrything . kata yang i tak puas hati dgn life dia bla bla bla whatsoevr . sumpah rasa nak gelak bila baca dm dia tu . mcm apa yang dia ckp tu , speeatutnya dia cakap depan cermin . bagi cakap balik  kat diri sendiri . haha.

i baru ckp pasal ranting kayu , dia punya gelabah sumpah mcm ken sampuk hantu kene histeria . gelabah taik weyy.

dia kata mcm ni ' aku tak kutuk pakwe kau , kau jangan main nama pakwe aku '

i pun mcm , seriousla dia tanya benda tu . the problem is , siapa yang main nama pakwe siapa. 

siapa yang mengutuk siapa kan .

i tak paham betul orang yang mcmni 

salah orang nak bash .

salah sendiri tetiba buta jadi tak nampak .

ish ish ish .

and i was going to reply her dms but dah tak boleh bcs dia dah unfollow me and blocked me . haha 

so childish weyy.

actually macam macam la dia mengutuk i after she unfollowed and blocked me . i senyap je malas layan dia . 

but she keep on barking like a dog . ideky.

thats all the funniest things on eart about a envy girl . 

thankyou for reading .

please friend with me . imma nice girl . 

love ya . 

 

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you.

She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. 

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now. The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again. 

 In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. 

She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request. I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. 

 My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. 

From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office. 

 On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. 

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute.

 I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door.

 I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore. She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. 

Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart. That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead. 

My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce

. — At least, in the eyes of our son — I’m a loving husband... 

 The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage! If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you. If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.. .